Going Ultrasound Free {Risks of Ultrasounds}

by Vegalicious Elena on September 23, 2011

I was not long after we announced that we were expecting a baby, that the questions started to pour in:

“Do you want a boy or a girl?”–I want a baby, people!

“Are you going to find out the baby’s gender?”–Nope!  I love surprises.

“Disposable or cloth diapers?”–Well, considering that my baby is the size of a poppy seed, neither for now, but in the future cloth. [I will blog about that later]

“Have you picked a name already?”–You bet we have!  We waited for this for several years, so we picked out names for all of our kids and have a few extra just in case if we have a football team instead of an average America family ;) .

“You will have to share baby’s first ultrasound image when you get it.”–Nope! Not happening!

How Ultra are Ultrasounds?

It was a few years back, way before we started to make baby plans, I was driving to work and heard a radio newscast that shed some light on ultrasound effects.  In short, there was a study done that showed that ultrasounds slow down/interfere with the brain development in a growing fetuses. It was then and there that I resolved to NEVER subject my baby, whenever I was going to have one, to any dangers of ultrasounds.

Now that I am pregnant, I get more and more of “Why not?” or “If there are risks, the benefits outweigh them, so do it!”

Really?  You are telling me if there was even a 30% or even 10% chance of your kid getting hit by a bus this morning, the benefit of him going to school by himself would outweigh the risk?  No! I doubt!  I am sure that you would take a day off work, put your kid in the car and make sure to safely deliver him to school.

Well, ultrasound risks are no different.  If your baby is in your stomach, it does not mean that s/he is safer because he is on the inside of you.  They can still be exposed to a lot of dangers: junk diet, alcohol, cigarettes, ultrasounds, etc.  But… before you throw any stones at me, tell me that I haven’t a clue what I am talking about, because your doctor told you that ultrasounds are safe [just as did mine tell me that the meds that drove me crazy would have no side effects], or write hateful comments I might have to delete, let me back myself up with studies.

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Studies on Risks of Ultrasounds

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Possible Birth Defects

In 2004, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration issued a warning; “Ultrasound is a form of energy, and even at low levels, laboratory studies have shown it can produce physical effect in tissue, such as jarring vibrations and a rise in temperature.” A rise in fetal temperature can cause birth defects and significant damage to the central nervous system. Researchers have also looked into a possible link between ultrasound screenings and autism.

Pre-Term Births

A study reported in the “American Journal of Obstetric Gynecology” found that women who had ultrasound examinations had a larger number of preterm births compared to women who received manual pelvic examinations during their pregnancies.

Smaller Babies

A study reported in the “Lancet” suggests that frequent ultrasound scans may result in the growth restriction in the womb. During the study, 1,415 women received ultrasound scans five times during their pregnancy, while 1,419 women were scanned only once. The women who were more intensively scanned gave birth to smaller babies.

Brain Abnormalities

In a study conducted on mice at Yale University, researchers discovered that exposure to ultrasound waves on the unborn mice had a negative effect on brain development. The longer the exposure, the greater the damage. A co-author of the study, Dr. Pasko Rakic states, “Ultrasound has been shown to be very beneficial in the medical context…our study warns against its non-medical use.” [I can guarantee that a mother, who is 1-2 months pregnant, unless she has some serious issues, has NO medical reason to get her baby "scanned". Most of what you hear is: "I want to make sure s/he is ok." OR "I want to hear his heart beat; find out his gender..." etc., etc., etc. 90+% of the time I do not hear a woman getting a scan because of medical reasons."

Unknown Effects of Repeated Exposure

Audible sound travels at 10 to 20 thousand cycles per second. Ultrasound travels from 10 to 20 million cycles per second. In a study conducted in 2001, a small hydrophone was inserted in a woman's uterus. The recorded sound reached 100 decibels, similar to a subway train coming into a station. In addition to sound, vibration and heat affect the fetus during an ultrasound.

The exposure to the fetus depends on the equipment, length of procedure and number of procedures. Long and short-term effects of accelerated sound waves on a developing fetus are unknown. Beverley Beech, a consumer activist in the United Kingdom calls routine fetal ultrasound "the biggest uncontrolled experiment in history."

The Temptations

Trust me, I can see the temptation a woman can feel wanting to SEE her baby, especially during the first trimester.  When there is no movement and no big growth going on, unless you have some physical symptoms, you are left wondering: "Am I really pregnant? Is the baby OK?" etc.  I know because I am going through it right now. There is nothing more that I want right now than to peek on the inside to make sure that the little fellow is OK!  But trust me, if you have a little patience, in eight weeks or so, unless you get morning sickness, you will get to see your belly grow and feel your baby move.  I personally think that it is worth the wait, as hard as waiting can be.

How did our mothers and grandmothers survive without ultrasounds?  Just fine.  None of us, non-ultrasound babies, are worse off not having been seen beforehand.  If we follow in their foot steps we might just find out that waiting is normal!

"But, but you don't understand--I have health issues and concerns!"--I sure do.  If you read my recent post, and know that I am coming through reversing hypothyroidism, and in the midst of doing it again, and have been diagnosed with a pituitary gland tumor, and am coming off strong medication, you will know that I have concerns too... but I choose to have more faith in the fact that my body is in motion of doing what it should, and, unless something terrible happens [which, of course, I pray it won't], I won’t be calling to schedule my baby’s first “photo session” ;) .

I think that there comes a point in our lives when we have to give up wanting to be in control all the time and let the nature take its course… even in our pregnancies. Nine months will still be nine months, and even if you take 10 ultrasounds you cannot hasten the day of your baby’s birth… Oops, wait!  Yes, yes, you can: “A study reported in the “American Journal of Obstetric Gynecology” found that women who had ultrasound examinations had a larger number of preterm births compared to women who received manual pelvic examinations during their pregnancies.”

Medical Benefits?

When I first posted a link to the above cited article [by the way, I do have more references, should you want them], I received a few interesting responses on Facebook.

“I know there are risks, but it’s SUCH peace of mind to see them and know they are growing as they should.”--Really?  Again, would you send your kid to a bus stop by himself if you knew that there are risks involved?  I surely doubt that.

“That’s one thing that I take the chance with! I love those ultrasounds!!! I typically get 2 per pregnancy- one to calculate due date and one to determine gender.”–I can tell you of a better way to calculate a due date, and waiting to find out your baby’s gender is not worth the risk of putting your developing child through being exposed to extra heat, which is damaging, and the horrible effect of sound on those developing body parts and the vibration; not to mention the fact that ultrasound technicians/OBs routinely make mistakes determining baby’s gender.

“I never heard of the risks of ultrasounds until after baby #3….discussed it with my OB and the benefits outweighed the risks for me.”–What are the benefits? Do pray tell me! And what do you expect from doctors?  They are trained salesmen–they blindly believe what they are taught in schools; oh, and when  you are looking forward to the ultrasound to make sure that your baby is OK, your doctor is looking for problems!

One reader dared to repost my post, since she is also preggo, and here is what she got:

“Quit reading this stuff, silly! It’ll just make you doubt your faith and trust and I know you don’t wanna do that! Keep that chin up and know you and your lil one are taken care of. ;)–And why do we have brain exactly?  God did not give it to us so that we put it on layaway, no sirree. If we have scientific data to back up certain facts, should we not listen to them? Or maybe if we have faith that jumping off a bridge is good for us, we should do it too?  We have to be careful, because often we mistaken our faith with our emotions, and our emotions are a fickle, fickle matter ;) .

I can quote more, but you get the point. Here is what I would love to tell you: If you err, err on the side of caution! 

Now, let’s see if there are actual benefits.  So, you get an ultrasound, and let’s say that you find out that there is something wrong with the baby.  You are not sure what, and neither is your doctor, since he is not really holding the baby in his hands, so he speculates.  He predicts that your baby will have a club-foot [true story], and NOTHING can be done anyhow.  You have to wait.  So now, instead of enjoying your pregnancy you are worried sick for the remaining four, three, five months.   Hmm… maybe I am thick skulled, but I fail to see any benefit in this.  Oh, and once you have your baby, you find out that she is perfectly normal!  No club foot–just two perfect feet :) .  ”What a relief!” you might think.  Really?  I would be looking for that doctor, who put me in the stress mode, to give him a club foot.  But… I know that some of you might just be grateful that all is well.  That is not good enough for me! And that is why the medical community gets away with so much.

Another true story, happened to someone who went to the same church with us a few years back: You have the ultrasound and the doctor tells you that your baby’s guts are outside her body–she will be born dead, or will die the moment she is born.  ”WHAT? This should be a happy pregnancy,” you cry… and cry… and cry… So, you are praying for a miracle, you are stressing… and your child is born absolutely normal.  Could it be that it was like the doctor said? Yes. Could it be that God performed a miracle? Totally!  But I will bet that the ultrasound was inconclusive and the doctor was wrong!  Isn’t that a possibility?  Yet you spent the last few months a nervous wreck.  How can that be good for you, your marriage, or your baby? I am still failing to see the benefit.

See, for many years before the ultrasounds came around, BTW, there are still no long-term studies that have been done how they effect children throughout their lives, doctors told women that X-Rays were a good thing and they were routinely performed on all pregnant women.  But with time we got wiser [or so we think... hard for me to tell since we are now scanning women with things that are stronger than x-rays], and now we know that X-rays are dangerous not only on pregnant women, but to every human in general.  Just imagine what we are going to discover about the side-effects and dangers of ultrasounds in another 20 years!  And that is how we should make our decisions–long-term.

And, let’s be honest, who really needs 5 ultrasounds to make sure that the baby is OK? [An average America mother gets around 3-5 ultrasounds per pregnancy.] Why not just put a camera in your uterus instead, so you can see them 24/7?  I could see the temptation [not justification] for one, or maybe two–max, if there is a problem, but anything else is total madness to me.

Would I Ever Consider Getting an Ultrasound?

I can tell you that there would be only ONE thing, and I would have to fight through it, to ever make me even consider getting one.  If I am pregnant and my baby is fine, but all of a sudden s/he stops moving for an extended period of time [whatever is abnormal], that would be the only time I would be willing to take the risk.  That is it!

Sore Spot

I know that for a lot of you Moms and expectant Moms out there this is a sore issue: you do not want to feel guilty for wanting to see your baby, know his/her gender, or just have a peace of mind. Well, this is NOT a guilt trip, just an informational post to, hopefully, help you make better decisions in the future.  Doing something, not knowing the side effects, is one thing, especially because we have been taught to trust our doctors so blindly, but becoming educated to make better decisions is a whole different playing field. Don’t you agree?

I think that most women are getting ultrasounds done without even considering the possibility of any risks.  They are doing it because everyone is, and because OBs, and even midwives, are now routinely offer them… oh, and because it is totally trendy!  Have you seen those 3D and 4D ultrasounds? How cool  are they?  Why not see what your baby really looks like?  God forbid you will have to wait three more weeks to do so face in face!  Oh, and it would really make an awesome baby book picture!

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Shall I say this again?  Here is what your baby has to go through during ultrasounds: hear a sound similar to a subway train coming into a station. In addition to sound, vibration and heat affect the fetus during an ultrasound.” and heat/raised temperature …can cause birth defects and significant damage to the central nervous system. ” See if you want to take a picture of that for the baby album.

*Here is the promo from the web-site where I found this image: MEET THEM TODAY-LOVE THEM FOREVER! 3D/4D ultrasound technology has the greatest impact and power to start a relationship and love for your unborn baby. Come see why The Belly Factory is the provider of 3D ultrasound Chicago parents love.

Are you kidding me? So, if you meet your child when he comes out of your belly you will love them less?  Or do you somehow love him less when he is on the inside of you, just because you have not seen him?  Only an idiot would say/think that!  My baby is barely visible, and I have not felt him/her move yet, but I already love him/her FOREVER! My relationship with my long awaited kiddo started way before s/he was conceived.

Sheesh… Sorry, that got me MAD :) .

Thoughts?

So, what are your thoughts on this now that you know the dangers of ultrasounds?

[I wonder how many angry unsubscribes I will get after this post.. hmmmm... Off to make my morning juice to feel better about myself :) ]

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  • http://profiles.google.com/shanabananag Shana Galbraith

    I think you just drew a line in the sand. ;) lol
    Anyway, I agree with you that ultrasounds just cause extra worry – they just made me stress more. And I had never heard of any ill effects from them – I just trusted my doctor. Huh. It never hurts to do your research – and unfortunately, a lot of us don’t do the research – we just trust blindly. Good luck with your pregnancy – hopefully you’ll be able to find a lot of cute white and yellows and neutrals to dress your surprise bundle of joy in. :)

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      Huh… A line in the sand? :) ))

      You are right, had I not done my research I would have done what the rest of my family, friends and the rest of the country is doing–trust my doctor.  Having gone through health problems when doctors told me I was hopeless, except to stay on meds for the rest of my life, taught me to question and research everything.  I guess that is a fringe benefit after all :)

      I am planning to have only a few sets of clothing ready for after the birth and go shopping once we know who the baby will be–that will be so much fun too! 

  • Lisa

    First- congrats!!! Just read the news yesterday and I’m so happy for you!!! Secondly- the thought of ultra sounds having a negative effect on a fetus never crossed my mind. I’m so thankful for your blog! I’ll definitely be doing my own research when the time comes. :)

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      Thank you, Lisa.  And I hear you–had I not taken the time to look into it, or not doubted medicine as I do, I probably would have never give it a second thought myself. 

  • Smilsten

    I just want to add that my first born’s ultrasound saved his life.  He ended up with cardiac issues that would have probably disquised themselves as a heart murmer, but in reality would have killed him in a few days.  Multiple ultrasounds later and 3 open heart surgeries, I have a wonderful 10 year old boy who I am thankful is alive!  I believe God has spared him for His glory.  BTW, he’s in the top of his class (grade wise).  Not that ultrasounds are the end-all perfect procedure (really, I did read your article :) ), but in this case, it saved a life.

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      Smilsten, than yours is the true “medical necessity”–those are the exceptions I am talking about. 

      Were they able to operate on him while still in the womb?

      • Smilsten

        Nope (while in the womb?  That’s just amazing they can do any of that!!).  1st surgery at 2 days old, 2nd surgery at 7 months old, and 3rd at 3 years old.  BTW, he’s interested in doing some major cleansing when he’s a little older to get out a bunch of those toxic meds that he had during his hospital stays (but we’re not complaining about those toxic meds, as they might have been instrumental in saving his life).  I’m a little concerned about him doing cleanses as he’s somewhat medically comprimised as he’s got some major nasties to get out.  Got any slow and easy advice (now there’s a possible future article series – hint, hint ;).  I’m sure I’m not the only one out there!)?

        Congratulations!  Children are truely a blessing from the Lord!!

        • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

          Wow! What a little fighter! God sure has a plan for him.  And I agree–if I am in a dire need, Western medicine can be a blessing :)

          And, yes, you can help him detox slowly and safely starting now.  Start including green smoothies daily–make them yummy, so he would love them.  The more he will drink them, the more his body will repair and heal itself, while detoxing.  By the time he is older he might not have anything left to “cleanse” ;) .  Of course staying away from processed, prepackaged and non-organic foods is a big thing for him.  If you are a dairy/meat eater, I would reduce that as much as possible, and if you decided to keep eating that stuff, do make sure it is organic, if at all possible. 

          The goal is to feed him as much of organic, green, whole foods yummies as possible–God created them to help our bodies repair and restore. 

          I have a friend, now raw vegan–her baby was born with two wholes in his heart.  She went onto the raw vegan diet right after and kept him on the same diet, as he was growing up, with some cooked foods as he got older.  Because of his diet, and much to the surprise of his doctors, the holes closed up on their own.  That is a miracle as well. 

          So, yes, you can start now!  :) that will also give him more energy and help him grow. :)

          • Smilsten

            Am replying a few days later, so don’t even know if you’re going to get this, but thought I’d take a chance.  Been thinking about your suggestion of green smoothies, and know you have a multitude of green smoothie recipes on your site, but wondered if you could recommend a few for someone who’s green-smoothie-challenged?  Green smoothies for those who don’t like greens (come on, get up off the floor – it is possible that there are people out there who don’t like their greens.  Oh nooooo, that wouldn’t possibly be us…:))?  I’d like his (okay, mine too) to be healthy and helpful, without too much of the green flavoring.  Mission impossible?

          • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

            Totally possible, start with greens that are mild to taste, such as spinach and chard.  Mix with water and fruit, such as strawberries and bananas, and other yummy stuff. When you get used to the taste, start increasing greens [in proportion to other ingredients], and play with other greens too. 

  • Addie4u83

    I totally agree with you on the ultrasound information. The harmful affects of finding a problem and being stressed the rest of the pregnancy are not worth it… Deal with the problem when you deliver. As for finding the sex of your baby, I have 2 kids and didn’t find out the sex with either one and it was the icing on the cake when they were born and we found there gender out after the labor!!!! Truly amazing!!! I hope that you have a wonderful pregnancy experience!!!

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      Thanks, Addie! I agree–plus, if you use natural family planning you can be nearly 80% of the baby’s gender from the time of conception :)

    • Addie4u83

      I forgot to put in there that I delivered them both at home even when the Drs told me with my second that I would have to have a c-section due to MAJOR health issues like blood clots and gallbladder disease…. Which have all been taken care of with nutrition…

      • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

        That’s fantastic! I am planning to do at home delivery too, so this is great to hear! We are meeting potential midwives next week :) !

  • Kimberan

    I had a nurse tell me as we were going in for an emergency C section, that she hoped we would love our child the same even though he was coming out via my stomach rather than the other way.  (As if that would be possible!)  Some people are just idiots and they say idiotic things (yeah, we complained about her later).  You’ll do great.  I agree with the other comment: Trust your gut!  Happy Baby Vibes coming in your general direction!!

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      WHAT? That was idiotic? Wow! I am speechless and in tears over this–how dared she? I would punch her lights out.  One of my sisters had to have a C-section because her uterus did not shape right around the baby, no matter how much she wanted a natural birth. If someone did something like that to her they would be OUT! 

  • Debbi Mitchel

    Sweetie………..only YOU can make decisions for your body and your baby.  To heck with everyone else.  You do not need to get ultrasounds or anything of the sort if you don’t want to.  They never use to and we all managed to come into this world just fine.  You’re doing the right thing listening to your body and what it’s telling you.  No worries!
    Take care and enjoy this time of your life………..it’s special.

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      Debbie, I agree :) I came out just fine without one… although some seem to disagree :) LOL

  • http://hihorosie.blogspot.com hihorosie

    I understand and respect your decision to not get an ultrasound. We understood the risks too when I was pregnant but opted to get one at around 20 weeks (I wanted to know what I was going to have!). Being that I was an “older” mom I wanted to be sure all was well, which thankfully, it was. Keep doing what you feel is best for you and your baby.

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      Getting one, compared to the average of 3-5 is still an improvement! One of my sisters had to have a C-section with her first one, so now she had a legitimate medical need, if she were to get pregnant, to have an ultrasound to make sure she can deliver vaginally this time, or if she would need a C-section again. 

  • Schona Kessler

    Whew….the last 4 posts took a while to read….good stuff though! So happy for you and your hubby…what an amazing adventure you have ahead. Yay for saying no to more drugs….I hate pills and Dr’s who try to say they are the only way.  Man I could really go for one of your green smoothies right now. :) Your family should just open a restaurant here in town….that would be awesome! :)

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      LOL, Schona, if they would sell as hot cakes, I would just move there and open a restaurant myself :) .

  • Reikitten

    I think this is very informative information. Good for you for being concerned about every conceivable ( no pun intended) health benefit for your newbie to be…I wish i had this information when I was younger. This is very valuable knowledge, and armed with wisdom, one can make better decisions that seem the best for each one of us. Thanks for your untiring research. You are the BOMB!!

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      :) Thanks.  I do realize that a lot of women simply don’t know this and trust their doctors explicitly–I want to change that ;) [not the trust, but the lack of information part :) )].

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  • razz

    I just came across your blog.  I LOVE reading success stories of people overcoming illness through natural methods.  Anyway, I too decided to not have an ultrasound or any form of sonogram and it is very challenging dealing with people’s reactions.  Everyone (including people you don’t know like waitresses, anyone who finds out you are pregnant) wants to know if it is a boy or a girl.  I do not have my husband’s support in not getting one so that increased the difficulty in handling the situation.  My mom and my sis are in agreement with not having one.  I was surprised by my husband’s aunt giving me a high five for choosing not to have one.  For most people, it has not even occurred to them to even question having an ultrasound. 
     
    I finally went to see a midwife at 16 weeks.  I would have liked to wait longer, but my husband is a worrywart and thus I feel obligated to have the baby in a birthing center/hospital.  I don’t want to be considered “high risk” because I had no prenatal care records.  But it is so stressful saying no to all these tests.  I think I told the midwife I didn’t want all the false positives and false negatives rather than to say I wasn’t convinced ultrasounds are safe.  I am thinking about the best way to refuse the GTT test next!  How disgustingly unhealthy to take in all that gross sugar!  Plus, it is another test with plenty of false positives.  For scheduling my appointment at 20 weeks the receptionist was excited to schedule me for an ultrasound and I told her I didn’t want one and she looked at me like I was some crazy lady.  I am not looking forward to all these prenatal appointments, but I feel obligated.  Going to the doctor is stressful to me and it is aggravating being told that I should do it and know that I am healthy and then, hey, you’re healthy.  Thanks for telling me something I already know.  It is no inconvenience for the doctor to waste my time and take my money.  If there was something wrong with my baby or my pregnancy, then I would want my body to do the natural thing and miscarry.  So, I don’t see the point in the umpteen appointments, but everyone is different.  Personally, I don’t have any interest in listening to my baby’s heart or to see some crazy strange ultrasound picture.  If my baby is beautiful and the heart is beating when baby is born, then I know that everything was fine up until that point.
     
    My husband’s brother and wife had an ultrasound with their first and were told the baby had down syndrome, so they stressed for a week on whether they were going to abort the baby or not (I was stressed for them, and not even officially in the family at that point).  Then they had more tests and found out instead the baby had a cleft palate.  My sister was violently ill and hospitalized early on in her second pregnancy and afterwards an ultrasound showed that her baby had gastroschisis.  Even with these personal examples of how it is maybe nice to know ahead of time in order to be prepared with doctors, I still do not feel compelled to get one.  In addition to everything I have read, I actually feel a lot of negative energy when I think about ultrasounds and I have recently discovered that there are reasons why I feel certain things, and through all my research on many topics of finding natural cures/behaviors (baby related or otherwise), I learning why I have that little inkling in the back of my mind saying something is not quite right. 
     
    Good luck with your pregnancy and stay strong in saying no to whatever you wish!  It is very empowering to be knowledgeable and to do what you believe is right for you.

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      Razz, don’t let the nay-sayers bother you. I have no problem telling people that I am NOT having an ultra sound.  My midwives feel the same way as I do, and even if they did not, it is MY child and my pregnancy. What good would it do to get a mis-diagnosis, put my child in danger from ultrasound and then have a healthy baby?  Even if there was a problem, there is no way to treat it until after birth, so it really defeats the purpose and instead put a couple, and especially the mother, under a lot of unnecessary stress, just like with your sister in law.  I am going to be having NO tests, expect when I need to check my thyroid levels, by that is my personal preference, given my history.  The test won’t hurt the baby–it’s a simple blood draw.  Outside of that, I am not even looking for an OB now–just midwives. If anything were to happen, we would go to the hospital [with our midwives] and any doctor that is on-duty that day could deliver my baby.  So, I am at peace.  

      Don’t feel pressured into any test–it is your body.  And don’t let anyone annoy you–instead make THEM feel uncomfortable instead :)–that’s my strategy. Any doctor that is not willing to work with me is FIRED! I only pay people who can really, truly help me. 

      So, stick to your guns–no need for GTT or other test.  Just eat right, take any supplements you might need, and be at peace with your body and your pregnancy–we are wonderfully created to handle pregnancies without outside invasions… And if you need someone to listen to you, I AM HERE! 

  • guest

    Thank you so much for this!  I literally googled “not wanting ultrasounds” and your blog came up. (got to love the internet)  
    You addressed the same questions that I have and it felt great to hear that others are experiencing similar feelings and reactions.  Before I was seriously considering having a baby, I never knew about any of this and thought ultrasounds were the norm and I would be crazy not to have one because thats what you do. I am so thankful that once I made the decision with my husband to have a baby, I became informed.  Read all that I could and listened to good friends who did not have ultrasounds and their experience and outcomes in the process. They all have happy healthy babies by the way.  One thing that my husband and I discussed was that we would have our baby regardless if it may or may not have a birth defect or down syndrome.  So why worry and wait for a test?  That helped with the thought process and ultimate decision making. Thats a personal decision and I realize not all can make that decision, but its a good one to ask yourself.
    What ever you decide, its your decision and your pregnancy.  Figure out what you want and what is important to you and have that pregnancy for yourself.  No one can take that away from you.  

    • http://www.vega-licious.com/ Elena

      I totally agree–every life is precious.  The whole idea of ultra sounds, well, a part of it, is to allow parents to decide whether they want to keep a child or abort it, which I find repugnant.  It also adds unnecessary worries to them. One of my nieces was told to be Downs Syndrome child, but when she came out she was absolutely, 100% normal. Just imagine if the parents listened to the doctors and took the offered “option”?  It is horrific to think!  Not to mention all of the other side effects of ultra sounds.  Nah, I prefer it the old fashioned way too :)

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